I’m sympathetic if he reacts badly — but violence, revenge porn, etc. are 100% out of bounds. Stew over it, gripe to your friends, even yell. Then be a civiliz

Rule for all: When angry, don’t do anything you can’t come back from.

Violence is always a bad idea, but if you need to, it should be two equally matched combatants who both want in. Then be embarrassed the next day, because violence never solves problems.