Look at the delusional videos on YouTube.
That's where you lost me. If it's on the Internet, odds are it's total bullshit.
On the other hand, I'm sure all those situations do arise - as they have for men since forever. If we assume you're right, why is society only broken now that women are starting to make the mistakes men have?
The timing is suspicious. Unless you've been a feminist all these years being just as upset over the way men have been misbehaving? Because everything you're describing is something they've fought against for decades, with very little male support.
Every one of these man-centered groups needs to do a hypocrisy check before they speak - except that would mean they'd have to be silent.