Not at all. They are decent guys, and liars, and idiots, and assholes, just like there are of any race, creed, color or other subdivision of Homo sapiens. But the conversation here is why men are struggling with the new dating scene. One of the main problems is people like you who believe the bad faith actors and the ignorant who are creating the problem. So in a sense, you are part of the problem: by refusing to recognize how the situation has been made toxic, you're out here contributing to the toxicity rather than fighting back.