So don't do it. If the game sucks, don't play it. Just because others aren't judging people on who they are doesn't mean you can't.

This is an example of what I mean by the internet damaging the world. You admit it doesn't make sense but insist on doing it. If you actually want a partner, stop doing the things that don't work.

It's like guys want to spoil the dating scene, or have some investment in being able to say it's spoiled. I'd guess 50% of the men I encounter complaining about relationships either don't actually want one or are going out of their way to sabotage their chances.

More reason not to trust people's online personas.