Still kinda missing the point. I'm saying it's time to stop judging women on appearance. If you're seriously proposing that men don't base a large percentage of their attitude toward women on appearance, I don't know what to do with that. You might want to go read, well, anything on the subject. It's not mysterious.

Your rants on that topic are misplaced, possibly on purpose(?) It can be hard to know.

By judging women on the same criteria as men, I meant setting aside looks and focusing on competence, intelligence, etc. That is, evaluate them as people.

I am definitely interested in your idea of what makes a good woman. Submissiveness? Allowing men to lead without complaint? Are men also expected to be loyal? It seems only fair.

Missing the definition of "good woman" makes the validity of it all hard to decide.