That's what the Internet says, but is it actually true? Social media, the Manosphere, Medium, etc. are not representative samples of the actual universe.

It is true she might not be you would pick first, either.

Many guys I've known choose poorly when they're young. I've run into several examples lately of men scorning the idea of "settling" for a less conventionally attractive woman. Rather like hot guys, hot girls come with a lot of baggage.

If I could send one message from my middle-aged self to my younger brothers, it's this: The trick is finding someone who is beautiful in the ways that matter. Faces wrinkle, tits and ass sag, but a loving heart can last a lifetime.

Also, as much as the Manosphere howls about women focusing on the top 20% of men - the most laughable lack of self-awareness I can imagine - men have ALWAYS focused on the top 20% of women. Those other girls might appreciate some male attention.