There are plenty of decent guys out here, you just aren't dating them. The type you say you want are like unicorns, because attractive men have no motivation to be good partners. If that's who you date, you'll be treated poorly then kicked to the curb. That's how they roll.

So one solution is not dating. The other is realizing that rippling abs and a thicc wallet are actually red flags and you should look elsewhere.

It's up to you, just be clear about what's going on.