This is one of my favorite quotes. Humans are very quick to blame others. Women are to blame for what's wrong with men. Politicians are to blame for the state of the country, not the constituents who elect them. And so on.

Check out any men's magazine and count up the number of small breasts, love handles, homely faces, etc. Won't need more than one hand.

Hate to break it to you, lads, but the way to date your dream woman is to be her dream man - and that may not be looks or money. What she wants is up to her, so you'd best bring that to the table, whatever it is. Seems only fair.

Or you do what the rest of us do, find someone who works well with you.

P.S. Except if you're a shithead, few-to-none of them are going to like that. Clean up your act, son!

I'm fat, funny looking, "neurodivergent," and can be a PITA to live with. I've also been with the same woman for 35 years.

I work hard to be a better husband each year than the last and give her enough good to make it worthwhile. All y'all should try that.